I apologize for the name calling, but obesity IS a disease. It's been researched as to why people's natural reaction towards obesity is that of avoidance. It's the same natural reaction one does towards any disease. It's tolerated because you don't want to hurt anyone, but, you don't want to hurt an alcoholics feelings either, however sometimes you have to be firm in order to get someone from killing themselves from over drinking, or smoking, or EATING.
Obesity IS A DISEASE, people.
People don't care ...( 3 months ago by 1wtrenae)
People don't care for overweight people. That is a fallacy. Look what SWP said, men supposed to overlook heavy women.
I'm a black woman, ...( 3 months ago by pumpkinpie1090)
I'm a black woman, and sorry but I have to agree with this guy. Black women have made "normal" into being overweight. I'm a slim black woman and people call me SKINNY..wtf? Skinny? LOL I'm 5'6 125lbs. I have a great figure but to overweight black women I'm too skinny. It's crazy! They love to tell me that black men don't like my size but I have never ever had a black man complain, they love me. Instead of working on themselves they want to MAKE people like them being unhealthy. Sad.
Uncalled for.( 3 months ago by 1wtrenae)
Uncalled for.
This entire post is ...( 3 months ago by Aritul)
This entire post is on point. Couldn't agree with you more.
Punkinpie, there ...( 3 months ago by Somozusi)
Punkinpie, there just jealous cuz youre probably gorgeous... :-)
I don't like generalising but the 'black women' you talk abbout who do this are usually the ones who would kill for a nice, slim bendy body- just look at the guys they tend to go for, athletic, healthy strapping young men- do you think these same guys are gonna want to holla at them first or an at tractive slim female? Do the math.
Array( 3 months ago by Somozusi)
MIDNIGHT1DEMO,
Food addiction like any addiction, is usually used to mask underlying problems. I don't know your mother but perhaps something happened in the past to make her turn to food for comfort. Overcoming addiction is usually about breaking a cycle by identifying triggers and then working out new ways to deal with these triggers when they arise. check it up on the web. there's some good info out there to help ANYONE who suffers from ANY addiction.
Oh I know that and ...( 3 months ago by MIDNIGHT1DEMO)
Oh I know that and she does too. I lost my father when I was six and they were married. She has had abusive men in her life before I was even born and has continued to deal with these type of so-called men. I got arrested for the first time when I was only 18 for unlawful discharge of a weapon indoors when he tried to kick in the door. She repays me by gettin right back with him behind my back. She has many issues that stem from her eating. I dont deal with her too much anymore. Still love her.
I'm a virgin and ...( 3 months ago by VJDTropical)
I'm a virgin and waiting until marriage but I agree..attraction plays a vital part in relationships..I wouldn't want to marry a man that I wouldn't want to have sex with and was disgusted by the mere thought of touching him..and I have seen a lot of fat women naked in the bathroom/changing rooms..just nasty..being too fat or too skinny is bad and unhealthy..a normal healthy weight is the ideal and these fat women have to understand that
AGREE VERY MUCH!!!( 3 months ago by GetAClueNow)
AGREE VERY MUCH!!!
To: missteek08. Do ...( 3 months ago by GetAClueNow)
To: missteek08. Do it for your health not for men!
i hear u...n 2 a ...( 2 months ago by Keisha770)
i hear u...n 2 a certain extent i agree
I agree.....( 2 months ago by GarlynX)
I agree.....
100% True i dont ...( 2 months ago by fastlyane)
100% True i dont understand why they figure being overweight is a good thing and it isnot Statistics say if your over weight your unhealthy AND THAT IS THE TRUTH!!!!!!!!!
Top issue here is ...( 2 months ago by stillirise83)
Top issue here is health. Prolonged obesity is dangerous and it can have effects. Especially if you look back at your family tree and find diabetes and gout lurking amongst the generations. That stuff is prominent amongst african americans due to soul food mostly, which itself can cause obesity. Real talk.
Preach bro. The ...( 2 months ago by msroz8)
Preach bro. The church has the biggest number of heavy women. Like I say, your videos are harsh but you speak the truth. You obviously love us bw, otherwise you would not be making these videos.
Sistas,
Lets work on ourselves and get our bm back :).
Being fat is an ...( 2 months ago by mrsduodu)
Being fat is an epidemic. I think it's become a part of the black community. We don't eat right most of the time and we don't work out like we should. I also think that black women are built different. Our body structure is different, we have more muscle mass, and because we are already curvacious, I think it's very easy for us to put on weight. I do think it's harsh to say that black men are not attracted to fat women because a know a few who are, but the majority aren't.
black women think ...( 2 months ago by REDGHOST8888)
black women think it is what on the inside no bitch drop the cupcakes hahahahaha
In general, Black ...( 2 months ago by babmousso)
In general, Black Americans need to :drink water, eat fruits and vegetables, to let go of the fried stuff. We need to get up our fat asses, play outside with our kids. Black women need to breast feed their babies. So they can grow healthy and smart, instead of young calves. We need to face the facts: heart diseases, diabetes,high blood pressure. Africans, Caribbeans eat healthy ( and still use hot pepper, onions, garlic, lemon, ginger in their cuisine). Let's stop the madness.
The reason girls ...( 2 months ago by DARKCOMIC8311)
The reason girls drop off at 20 years of age is because they r on there 2nd baby.....its sad but true
they dont exercise. ...( 2 months ago by steven2be2003)
they dont exercise..I see fat black women everyday and under 20 years old..fat is not normal..I agree..fat women turn me off..
(see video) ...( 2 months ago by Beryl333)
(see video)Unpretty-by tlc (lose the weight for yourself)
(see video) ...( 2 months ago by Beryl333)
(see video)unpretty-by tlc(lose the weight for yourself)not a man who is a perfectionist
fake Italian food ...( 2 months ago by babmousso)
fake Italian food and fake Chinese food form a big part of Black American diet. Balck Americans are afraid of African food ( like fish and rice in delicious sauce), but will eat food not meant for their body type. Too much sweet and dairy( cheese) is not good for us.
I don't like generalising but the 'black women' you talk abbout who do this are usually the ones who would kill for a nice, slim bendy body- just look at the guys they tend to go for, athletic, healthy strapping young men- do you think these same guys are gonna want to holla at them first or an at
tractive slim female? Do the math.
Food addiction like any addiction, is usually used to mask underlying problems. I don't know your mother but perhaps something happened in the past to make her turn to food for comfort. Overcoming addiction is usually about breaking a cycle by identifying triggers and then working out new ways to
deal with these triggers when they arise. check it up on the web. there's some good info out there to help ANYONE who suffers from ANY addiction.
Sistas, Lets work on ourselves and get our bm back :).